LOVE AND SADNESS

Love takes time. It needs a history of giving and receiving, laughing and crying...Love never promises instant gratification, only ultimate fulfillment. Love means believing in someone, in something. It supposes a willingness to struggle, to work, to suffer, and to rejoice. Satisfaction and ultimate fulfillment are by-products of dedicated love. They belong only to those who can reach beyond themselves; to whom giving is more important than receiving. Love is doing everything you can to help others build whatever dreams they have. Love involves much careful and active listening. It is doing whatever needs to be done, and saving whatever will promote the other's happiness, security, and well-being. Sometimes, love hurts. Love is on a constant journey to what others need. It must be attentive, caring, and open, both to what others say and to what others cannot say...Love says no with empathy and great compassion. Love is firm, but when needed it must be tender. When others have tried and failed, love is the hand in yours in your moments of discouragement and disappointment. Love is reliable. Love is a choice and commitment to others' true and lasting happiness. It is dedicated to growth and fulfillment. Love is not selfish. Love sometimes fails for lack of wisdom or abundance of weakness, but it forgives, knowing the intentions are good. Love does not attach conditions.... Genuine love is always a free gift. Love realizes and accepts that there will be disagreements and disturbing emotions... There may be times when miles lay between, but love is a commitment. It believes and endures things. Love encourages freedom of self. Love shares positives and negatives reactions to warm and cold feelings. Love, intimate love, will never reject others. It is the first to encourage and the last to condemn.Love is a commitment to growth, happiness, and fulfillment of one another.Love? What is love? For some may mean nothing, for others it means everything. But one thing is certain, love has no age and no explanation, it comes unawares and you include them in nets and then you feel the happiest, because love gives life and power to live. Love can be, and is definitely a double-edged weapon, because it is what gives you life and high on the highest peaks but one that takes your life and throw you into the deepest precipices.Always hard to find the right person, persons to whatever gives you the best, but when you will met this, then you will realize you may at first look, first touch and first kiss.And there you have reached the point where you meet the right person. From the moment you feel you float, you feel that whole world is yours, feel that only he counts to you. From now on you life has changed course, for what was or will be does not matter, you focus only on the present moment, on what you now and you do not want to lose for the world. And maybe at some point, you think you never belive you encountered so happy, and when you stop your way and you thank God that you gave Heaven on Earth.Now you know for sure that whatever may happen someone really loves you and you in your turn you wish to have him next to you, happy to do it because it's still the best of the world, the only thing for which you live. You feel that everything is perfect and nothing will ever break, but fate reserve many surprises everyone, since not long dedication as best gift you true love, now it try to take ...You feel like you lost everything, your life has no meaning. All you have now in your soul is his smile that you loved so much and beautiful memories.That's love, she climbs up and down you, is something that not too many people is able, but everyone is entitled to try. Love can be easily likened to a game of cards because you put everything in the game and play until the last card to win because to lose would be the most painful thing in your life.